iyrln:

localramblinghouseplant:

hellforcertain:

iamjj123:

hellforcertain:

hellforcertain:

hellforcertain:

t*rfs also like to twist the fact that there’s little long-term medical research into transitioning (for both trans women and trans men) in order to abuse and frighten trans men into detransitioning (which, btw, often leads to the suicidal depression that dysphoria causes and transitioning alleviates!)

like that popular post about how binding even with a good binder will fuck you up for life and make it impossible to have top surgery later on? written by a crypto-t*rf who thinks trans men are lesbians

the number of replies/tags that say something like “i’ve been terrified to bind and/or thought i’d completely fucked up my chance of getting top surgery because of that post” is horrific tbh and if you cis people actually gave a single shit about trans people you’d stop circulating shit like that

So wait. What’s the truth? Will binding fuck up your chances of getting top surgery?

no, it won’t. here’s an email from my GP, who’s been working in the Fenway Health system (which focuses on LGBT healthcare and research) for over a decade:

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Binders worn too tight or for too many hours in a day can certainly cause some chronic rib/chest pain; they may even cause some scarlike thickening of the tissue under the skin - usually at the margins where the breast folds down against the chest wall in general. This can be uncomfortable, too. But none of this translates into making top surgery a problem. Not at all.

None of the surgeons I’ve sent patients to have ever remarked about this and nothing in standard practice or the general literature suggests or supports that conclusion.

Oh my god thank you

I’ve been refraining from wearing my binder because I saw that post and NOW I SHALL GET 2 MORE THANK YOU

We asked the paediatrician if it was okay for my son to start binding when he was like 11 and she said it was fine. I also thought it carried a lot of risk but apparently that’s only if it’s done in an unhealthy way

russingon:

i know i always talk about this but. “don’t go where i can’t follow” is such a wild line. it’s literally 6 words and yet

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heccing:

phemiec:

YA books: There are 2 boys, the protagonist girl HAS to date one, but how can she choose? They are so incredibly different in every way!

The boys:

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He literally has a twin brother but the implication here is much funnier